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Changing your mind

Changing Your Mind vs. Changing the World—Part 1

by William R. Yoder on November 21, 2009

The only time when we need guidance about happiness is when we are unhappy (unpeaceful, afraid, angry, worried, etc.). It is then that we need to make some kind of a change.

I always have some reason why I am unhappy—something that my mind tells itself to explain or justify the unhappiness. Typically I come up with a reason involving something outside myself. For instance, I am angry now because my friend made an unkind comment to me. Or, I am afraid now because there may be a bird flu epidemic coming soon. Or it may be something that happened in the past—a past that is “outside” of the present moment. [click to continue…]

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Changing Your Mind vs. Changing the World—Part 2

November 28, 2009

[see previous post] Because many people think they need to change the world in order to be happy, we find lots of books that tell us how to manipulate others and the world. There are many approaches available: goal-setting and action-plans, using subliminal persuasion techniques, working hard and saving wisely. And then there are the [...]

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Changing Your Mind vs. Changing the World—Part 3

December 5, 2009

[see part 1 and part 2] From my perspective, there are two big problems with what I call “the technique approach.” The first problem is that this approach is based on lie, at least in my experience. Unhappiness (like happiness) ultimately comes from within. We are unhappy first, and then we find something to blame. [...]

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Changing Your Mind vs. Changing the World—Part 4

December 12, 2009

[see part 1, part 2 and part 3] So what is involved in changing your mind? As we saw earlier, it’s not merely a matter of doing some special technique or practice. What needs to change is the mindset and way of thinking of the doer. As long as your underlying core beliefs are inconsistent [...]

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